Back in the day (which was just about five years ago), Facebook was limited to colleges, and a relatively exclusive number of schools at that. We all loved it because it was a refreshing change from having to deal with the middle-aged guys who had begun invading MySpace in droves. It was addicting, and despite startling changes like the introduction of the newsfeed (yes, it led to groups like "Petition to Facebook Against Adding the Newsfeed"), everyone in college quickly became a devoted user. Sunday mornings were now reserved for pouring over hilarious photos and riotous status updates of the previous two days' escapades. "Studying for finals" soon came to mean spending hours checking out friends' profiles, before maybe deciding to crack a book come 2 am.
And then, the unthinkable happened: Facebook was opened to the public. In hindsight, it started going downhill from there... at least in the eyes of Facebook's early adopters. Suddenly, everyone had a Facebook profile, from your elderly Aunt Mary to your ten year-old brother. Companies began targeting advertisements based on "likes" and "dislikes" listed on profiles, lines between business and pleasure were blurred as bosses joined Facebook and "friended" their employees, and, perhaps most importantly, our sense of privacy began to become less and less... well, private. As the Facebook demographic began shifting towards the Baby Boomer generation, those of us who had been users since its early days felt disenchanted and frankly, disenfranchised.
What had been our exclusive online world was now open to anyone and everyone, and no longer held the same appeal it once had. It should come as no surprise, then, that many Facebook users in my age group are deactivating their accounts, or at the very least, visiting the site less often. We're moving on in increasingly large numbers, favoring social gaming, Tweeting, and blogging; many of us eagerly await the next site that will provide the online niche for the needs that Facebook used to satisfy. Personally? I keep my Facebook profile for event pages, photo albums, and the occasional surprise of discovering a high school classmate who's gotten married. However, Facebook has lost its original luster. If we originally used the site because it was exclusive to the college social melieu, what good is Facebook when it has surpassed the 500 million user mark?
How should Facebook react to the growing exodus from their site? I think the answer lies in bringing back some of the original exclusivity and interactivity, the two features that drew us to the site in the first place. I still remember the thrill of receiving an email notification that someone had written on my Wall or that someone I'd met in class had added me as a friend. These are the elements that brought people clamoring to join Facebook in the first place; maybe it's time for a return to the beginning?
Is Facebook still relevant? What does it still offer us in our daily lives besides the ability to waste time and reinforce connections we've already made in the "real world"? Comment below and let me know how you view Facebook's current status--no pun intended--in the world of social media.
About the author: Lindsay Goldner is a UC Berkeley graduate working as the Social Media Coordinator at Gemvara. When she's not Tweeting, Facebooking, or blogging, she loves do-it-yourself home decor projects, reading novels, Broadway musicals, and exploring her new home, Boston!


